Manifestation is the practice of believing that something you desire will become reality, such as finding your ideal mate. This powerful process can bring anything you desire into existence – including romance.
Chan suggests daily meditation, journal writing and guided visualization exercises as ways of reinforcing positive beliefs and rewiring neural pathways. Doing these things repeatedly will help rewire neural pathways and foster more optimistic thoughts and beliefs.
1. Set the Right Intention
Setting an intention and believing that what you desire will come is essential in manifesting someone or something. Do this by clearing your mind of negative energy and setting positive ones instead, as well as having faith that what you desire will eventually manifest into reality.
As part of your search process, it’s also essential that you gain an understanding of what your ideal partner should be based on your values and goals in life. Doing this will allow you to find someone suitable.
Be careful to not put too much pressure on the outcome of your manifestation. Doing this may lead to disappointment if the person doesn’t meet your expectations; rather be thankful for every experience as an opportunity for growth and learning – this way your next manifestation will be even better than before – this is true manifestation!
2. Concentrate on the Positive
Think about what you want when approaching manifestation. Doing this will keep your motivation high while helping to focus on what really matters.
An essential aspect of manifesting any person is respecting their free will and destiny. Your goal shouldn’t be to shape reality in ways they don’t wish, or interfere with their karmic journey.
You may meet someone different than what you imagined; they may still possess all the attributes that matter in a relationship.
Try to focus on the positive emotions associated with this person. Practice gratitude by writing in your journal what you’re thankful for – this will draw positive energy to yourself and reinforce positive intentions. Finally, release any attachment to outcomes – this is where magic truly lies!
3. Practice Visualization
Manifestation is the practice of asking the universe for something and then waiting for it to arrive in your life. This powerful technique can be used to attract money or love.
Visualization is key when it comes to successful manifestation. Doing this helps your goals feel more tangible, increasing their odds of success while keeping yourself motivated and inspired.
Implement your goals daily through writing them down in a journal or guided meditation, or visualizing and feeling them during guided imagery exercises. The more realistic and detailed your vision is, the greater its chance of coming true. Also useful is repeating them over and over, such as three times when waking up, six times at lunch time and nine times before bed. Repetition helps cement goals into your subconscious making them more achievable over time.
4. Focus on the Future
Attracting someone requires positive thinking and setting clear intentions. Without knowing exactly what you want, reaching it may prove challenging. To stay motivated on this path to manifesting someone, focus on envisioning your desired future through visualization or making a vision board.
Importantly, manifesting someone should not interfere with their free will or disrupt their karmic journey. Instead, it involves aligning your energy with qualities you seek in them and experiencing joy, love and peace as envisioned by you and the universe. While your timeline might differ from others’ timelines, if you stick with it you will eventually find someone suitable – maybe not your imagined one but someone better suited to you than imagined at least!
5. Make a Vision Board
Visual representations of your ideal life will keep your goals top of mind and serve as a powerful source of positive energy when motivation wanes. Create your own vision board using Feng Shui principles or find digital manifestation apps to do this for you.
Writing in a journal can help clarify and focus your thoughts and manifest who you wish to become. Writing in present tense shows the universe that you’re open for new possibilities.
Practice manifesting requires positive energy and the ability to release negative thoughts. Clearing away subconscious roadblocks can be challenging and require time; to help with this process it may be useful to work with a therapist or community of like-minded people.
6. Talk to the Universe
An important element of manifesting someone is honoring and respecting their free will. They decide who enters their lives, so it’s not your place to force your will on them or alter their karmic journey.
Focus on the qualities you admire most in someone, and work to incorporate those traits into your life. Visualize this reality as vividly as possible, connecting emotionally when imagining it–this will further strengthen your intention.
Take some time each day to envision your desired outcome while you’re in a calm state–ideally when first awakening or just prior to picking up the phone or getting online. Your subconscious is more open at this time to receiving positive energy messages, which can speed up the manifestation process. Don’t attach timeframes or expectations when visualizing what you want!
7. Take Action
If you want to bring someone special into your life, taking action is critical. From using dating apps or setting aside a time to talk with a crush to actively being part of the process and being committed to its completion.
Make it clear what qualities you seek in a partner, so that you can attract those qualities and energy that fit best. Never force someone into changing their personality or forcing a particular relationship path as this could interfere with their freedom and cause significant disruptions to relationships.
Visualization is an effective way to clear your mind and align emotions with what you desire to bring into your life. Writing down thoughts, feelings and desires can also be very useful as this allows you to track progress more closely while staying motivated – you could also look into guided meditation sessions which specialize in manifesting specific goals.
8. Release Negativity
Manifestation can be an effective method for finding your ideal partner, but it’s essential not to get attached too tightly. The universe operates in mysterious ways and things may not always turn out exactly how we predict.
Do not forget that all individuals possess free will. While positive thinking and the law of attraction may help bring someone into your life, their presence should also come naturally and consciously from within themselves – creating relationships should never involve manipulating or forcing another’s path and journey in any way.
Find an accountability partner to aid in your manifestation journey – perhaps a friend or clinical therapist can assist in breaking through subconscious roadblocks to ensure that you take consistent, measured steps towards your goals! Most important of all: positivity is key!
9. Stay Focused
Energy alignment is at the center of successful manifestation, meaning aligning your emotional and vibrational state with that which you wish to attract. Doing this requires practicing gratitude, joy, and love as ways of raising your frequency to match that which defines what your desires entails.
When manifesting someone, it’s essential that your focus remains on who it is that you want rather than on when they will arrive. Trust that the universe will provide exactly the person that’s meant to enter your life at their perfect moment.
Be sure to speak your desires into existence using positive affirmations such as, “I am open and ready to receive my ideal partner”. Write them down and say them three times every morning, six at noon and nine in the evening to reinforce your intentions and speed up the process.
10. Be Open
Manifestation involves adopting an affirmative mindset, believing in what you desire, and taking steps towards its realization. While not magic, manifesting can help attract those that belong in your life.
Focusing on what you do want from a partner rather than on any potential downsides is key when finding love. For example, if cooking is important to you but uncertain whether your future partner can keep up, invest in your skills by attending cooking classes yourself.
Kaiser also recommends speaking your wishes out loud as this helps cement them in your subconscious. Listening to guided meditation sessions that focus on your manifestation goals may also be beneficial. Finally, being open-minded about meeting someone new and freeing yourself of preconceptions about how your relationships should unfold can only serve you well!